For a person, we set goals, we set our purpose, we set our mind-set to reach and to approach certain things in our daily life.
I’ll be writing what matters to me the most.
As a teenager
To find the right person who love me for me is what matters.
To find a group of individuals who stay in a friendship is what matters.
To present an excellent performance in education for my parents is what matters. That’s it.
Society labeled you, whatever you do is wrong, specifically tend to be wrong
a mess, helpless, clueless and careless.
As young adult today;
Love can be manipulated by the usage of medium namely through the context of texting rather than by the words made by our own mouth, purely from our heart
Confusion of mix signals or signs made up by thoughts
Friendship is just a game, to stay or to leave and let it be
Grades define you, and such
You are expected to be well behave, independent, future oriented,
with high expectation plant in you,
no emotion include or matters
Past is one of the lesson we learn from
History is one of it, our own is different
I would say that, I learn a lot from my past.
and yes everyone have their own past. ( But take note that, NEVER compare someone else’s past or pain with yours or others. )
Some may act as a motivation, another shuts down certain perspective in mind.
To focus so much on studies, books on the table,
Writing notes in class,
I care less the names of my classmate
I gave too much of my efforts to someone.
Too focus on studies, I have less interest in leisure
Too focus on love, you will lost yourself and those surrounds you
Too focus on friendship, you know what will happen in the end.
Again, I have been through family, friendship and relationship.
Too young to face those kind of things, but I learn from it,
it does not seem much to public, but it affect an individual
Therefore, if I say that I understand, I really do.
But sometimes to know that you understand creates an anger towards an individual,
because they, don’t want you know
because they, afraid to understand that you do
because they, don’t believe theres a way in every problems.
Too afraid to understand nor to open up.
A friend of mine once say that
” to be true to yourself, to be kind and is it necessary.”
That makes it clear for me.
And another friend of mine;
“Be a problem solver”
I’m not quite sure about it yet,
However, I do want to help in any way,
” Because to help someone is basically helping yourself as well”
I need set my goal, I need to change my mind set,
To be positive and open
To look both inside and outside of the box
Therefore, what matters to me;
To be able to understand in every aspect if possible
To focus on myself first and then others, although it may seem like selfish, does not mean it is bad
To be beneficial to my family and organisation that I’m currently in.
To be there for the person that means a lot to me.
My point is that
If you involve yourself in something, means that you get to learn more than the basics
If you feel like giving up, don’t because that’s the exact time something is going to happen, positive ones! But, sometimes you do have to give up, depends on the situation.
Yes, something happen for a reason, just keep your mind set in positive mode
believe in yourself
you can do more
you can do better
you are capable to do things
you can improve yourself into a better version.
That is what matters to start your day.
So what matters to me now? no, more importantly what matters to you?
The first thing thats in your head.